Showing posts with label Cameras. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cameras. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Reflections: February 18th

It’s hard knowing where to put this blog … so, I think “Snapshots and Project 365” is the best place for it.

[My Project: 365 picture. Remembering Dale]
Today is the 14th anniversary of Dale Earnhardt’s death. Today would have been my grandma’s 98th birthday (a grandmother I was named after). She died November 2002, a year and nine months after Dale. So today, there is a bit of sadness. 

Fourteen (14) years ago, she had NO idea who I was. She was in the late stages of Alzheimer’s. So, I decided to watch the race here and there … except for the last few laps. I had a lot to do, and I was a bit emotional. Though nothing like I would be later that night. 

Later that night, as I told my mom goodnight, I learned that Dale Earnhardt had died. He was my racing hero – he made the impossible seem possible.



A lot has changed in those fourteen (14) years. I’ve attended ten (10), going on eleven (11) races at Las Vegas Motorspeedway. Speaking of that ... NASCAR will here in 15 days. I’ll watch Jeff Gordon race one last time here. I’ve seen a lot of my favorite drivers race here one last time, and I’ve seen people race here for the first time. 

I’ve seen the Busch series race, the Nationwide, and soon the Xfinity Series. I’ve seen Nextel and Sprint. I’ve seen a lot of changes in the sport.

But that isn’t all. In the past fourteen (14) years I’ve personally changed in so many ways that I hardly recognize myself. I hardly resemble the young girl (24/25 year old) that heard that devastating announcement. I definitely am nowhere near the same post-9/11 person I was. 

I’ve had extremely low points (9/11 was the “hit rock bottom” part), and I’ve “soared among the clouds” for the high points. 

And, I mean that quite literally. Last June I faced a demon – I flew from my home in Las Vegas to Newark, NJ. One of the hijacked flights flew out of Newark, so that was definitely staring the devil down. I flew in that airport and out of it. I actually boarded a total of four (4) aircraft to take a remarkable journey. 

["D" gate at McCarran International just before boarding my Delta flight to Atlanta Hartsfield-Jackson Airport; first of two for the trip back to New Jersey.]
[A bit delayed leaving Atlanta for Newark due to a patch of bad weather. Checking for flight arrival information. I'd land in time to check in to my hotel. Check-in was 4pm]

[Making the descent into Newark, NJ. Seeing toll booths for the first time. We really weren't that late as it turned out. Both flights were awesome. Scary, but awesome.]

I got to see (from Liberty State Park) the World Trade Center and Statue of Liberty: 

[One of my FAVORITE pictures of the World Trade Center. Taken June 28, 2014]

[My view of the Statue of Liberty. Taken June 28, 2014]

Today, I realize how many blessings I really have. I’ve been able to experience things I never thought possible. Today I realize how much of Dale’s “never give up” spirit is still inspiring meI’ve met wonderful people, met my childhood heroes, met people who’ve inspired me. I’ve been to some remarkable places and done remarkable things (even gone to concerts):

[Met Gary Sinise at the CSI: Experience. November 2011]

[Attended a Lt. Dan Band concert at the Mandalay Bay. November 2011. One of many "free" free concerts I've been to.]
[Saw the original "Starsky" Ford Gran Torino from Seasons 2-4. Newark, NJ June 26, 2014]

[Met and had dinner with David Soul (Hutch) and Paul Michael Glaser (Starsky). I was part of a select few who did. Newark, NJ June 26-28 2014]
I’ve reconnected with my family, and those bonds are stronger than they were. I’ve reconnected with some friends, lost touch with others, lost some entirely, and made some new friends. But, life goes on. And, I learned the importance of this message:

[Inspirational card I made to remind myself to "keep going". Made through my Heritage Makers business]
I can see why Dale was so tenacious on the track, it is a trait of those born under the Taurus the Bull sign – I know, I was born on the same day. Once I rose up, I never stopped. I kept going. Much like Dale (and like another person I admire and was lucky to meet) … you just keep going. 

Today, I miss Dale. I’m sad; I can’t say I’m not. But, like his son Dale Jr. stated on Twitter … I’m glad he lived:

[Dale Jr's tweet]
I don’t think I’ll ever stop wondering “what if”, but I’m not so bogged down in the “what if”  that I can’t see the “what can be” in front of me.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin’ might mean taking chances, but they’re worth takin’
Lovin’ might be a mistake, but it’s worth makin’
Don’t let some hell bent heart leave you bitter
When you come close to sittin’ out, reconsider
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance …

I hope you dance …

That song always seems to play at the right time. Do I cry? Sometimes. But, through those tears, I still smile. Why? Because, I know exactly what give the heavens above more than just a passing glance  really means:

[My view as I head home to Las Vegas from Detroit. Delta Airlines Flight 1917; DTW to LAS; June 2014]

[In case anyone needed to see this to believe it. Yes, I still have all my boarding passes from that trip.]

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Changing of the Guard (more specifically – Hello to a New Camera, Goodbye to the Old) …

Okay, this might seem silly … but I’m almost heart-broken over the fact I have to replace my Sony Cybershot (point & shoot) camera.

You might begin laughing, but realize this … I am sad, teary-eyed, and crying. It wasn’t just an ordinary camera – it has been my best friend for the last five years.

** We’ve been through quite a few NASCAR races (2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, and 2014) together    

** We’ve been through several birthdays (2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, and 2014) together 

** We’ve been through several Christmases (2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, and 2014) together 

We’ve been through quite a bit it seems … 

We’ve taken two road trips to California (2011 and 2012), and together we also went on the “trip of a lifetime” to capture memories that I can only share with my photos (and some videos)   

I know … not THAT again!!! But, it is part of the camera’s history. Part of why I am crying. This camera and I made a remarkable history together – we even boarded four (4) airplane rides together. Not as checked baggage, but … in my pocket, on my lap, and looking out the window (something I thought I'd NEVER do).

It was the camera that someone used to capture an epic picture of me and my favorite actor/director (and of course the owner of a Torino used it for another epic picture, check my Twitter avatar for that one). So, it’s a bit hard to pull it out of the purse for the last time to photograph its replacement.   

Now, as we enter into the last NASCAR race mom and I are attending together (though down the road I might go to one by myself) … I’m reminded of how truly special that little pink Cybershot really is. It likely won’t visit this race. Then again its predecessors attended only one (1) or three (3) of the races.

That little one? It did quite a bit of the load! I am not kidding you. It was definitely worth every penny   

I know my mom will take care of it, and I can visit everyday … but, there is something inside that really hurts as I take the last few pictures off of that blasted-ass PRO MEMORY DUO STICK THAT NEVER FIT MY COMPUTER’S PORT!! At least the new camera uses the SD memory card!! 


[The box of the NEW camera. It is a 2012 model though]

 
[Should always get a second battery. I had one with the old camera and was grateful as most of them only last so long. During a NASCAR race? Two batteries are essential. Also, a new memory card was a MUST for this camera. I've previously used FUJI-xD and the Sony Pro-Duo Memory Stick. Now this memory card can fit in my laptop]

[Always cool to explore a new toy. This is a purple/violet one, and the camera uses a USB cable/adapter to charge the batteries]


I initially had a hard time getting the laptop (which is purple too) to read the camera card … arrrgh!!! But, installed a patch and so far, so good.


The new camera has a few cool features:

** 16.2 MEGA PIXELS (I remember getting excited about a 12mp)
** 3” (inch) display
** Touch-screen Menu Display
** Full HD 1080i
** 3D still image and 3D Sweep Panorama mode3
** Intelligent Sweep Panorama HR mode
** Background Defocus
** Face Detection
** Smile Stutter and Anti-Blink
** Natural Flash

And so much more!!

You can read about it here:



While it is a great camera (and comes in the color I LOVE … VIOLET/PURPLE), I can’t help but think of that little pink camera that will sit in a drawer until my mother uses it to practice with.

My mom has NEVER owned a digital camera, and she’s hesitant as she honestly doesn’t know how to use them (wait until she gets a Samsung GS-4 phone in a few weeks; should be fun).

While she’ll care for it lovingly … that pink camera has been part of my life for five (5) years.  I can’t help but feel like I’m abandoning it. Still, I know … in its current condition, retirement is a kind thing for it. It’s been through enough.

[Pink camera has been in a "bad state" for a while. This was late last year -- 2014]
[Here it sits ... waiting for retirement. Picture was taken with new camera]

I just didn’t realize that saying goodbye to a camera was this hard … just wait until I have kids and they go off to college. I can home school them only so far … 

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Know Your Camera Equipment

Believe it or not, some people do not know their cameras or equipment. While they might be good or even excellent photographers – they don’t know the different between “pro” and “point & shoot”.

This has caused a LOT of problems for people in certain situations – concerts, malls, family gatherings … even a trip to a family fun center has brought up the issue of when and where cameras should and shouldn’t be allowed.

Not all cameras are the same …

So, why is it important to know your camera?

Other than knowing how it works, it’s also good so you know where it is allowed, and where it isn’t allowed. That could mean a lifetime of memories, or a fleeting experience with nothing to remind you of it.

Some places have restrictions on the type of camera that is allowed – some allow no photography whatsoever, some allow only “personal” use cameras. And, that can lead to confusion.

There are a few cameras we know about:

     ** Smart Phones with cameras (iPhones, Android, etc.)
     ** Digital “point & shoot” cameras (like the lower/cheaper Cybershots)
     ** Digital SLR (DSLR)/Professional cameras (higher class Cybershots, etc).

Now, I’ll be the first to admit … I don’t know everything about photography. But, I do know the professional ones from the “point & shoot” personal ones. I do know that some are WAY more advanced than others, and designed for a different purpose.

The reason I mention this is because of two incidents revolving the use of photography in certain areas. Two personal ones in 2012, and an experience a friend had earlier in the year.


Where NOT to Use Professional “PRO” Cameras …

On a trip to the mall, a friend was “approached” by security regarding the use of her camera. In short, there was a certain “restriction” regarding the use of “professional” cameras in the mall. While she didn’t know the camera was exactly a “pro” camera, there is also no signage prohibiting the use thereof. Personal cameras and/or cell phones were allowed though, which can make it seem confusing. Why is ONE particular camera allowed, and another not allowed?

I get the confusion.

“Why is ONE particular camera allowed, and another not allowed?”

From reading about a lot of legalities surrounding the use/distribution/publication of people’s likeness and/or images for commercial use, in addition to children’s privacy, I think I get it. I do.

The reason? PRIVACY.

I don’t even like having my picture taken at the racetrack and try very hard to “hide”. I just don’t see myself as “photogenic”; please take someone else’s picture … stay away from me. But, I know being out at the race track, and doing what I do there … there is a chance I will be “photographed”. I give up my rights when I go there. That I understand.

On the other hand … being that I LOVE to photograph experiences, I’m always up for a chance to document my memories. As anyone on Facebook will tell you … I’ve posted OVER 14,000 pictures going back over the course of 10 years.

I’ve used my camera phone and “point & shoot” (a VERY SMALL Cybershot) in several situations. One was at the mall, in front of security, with no reprimand. And, I was there two straight days, same area – the food court, where my friend was approached.

Why was I there? I was working on a class assignment. It was an Anthropology assignment on human interactions. I had my laptop, my textbook, my photo equipment (my phone, my camera, and my camera’s USB cable), and my backpack. I also had a web browser open to the class and assignment. Perhaps seeing that … security assumed I was there doing homework (legit reason) and left me alone.

But, to get to the bottom of “why is one camera allowed over the other”, we have to understand the differences and the purposes.


What is the Difference Between “Pro” and “Point & Shoot”?

Besides looks and functions?

Professional = Distribution to a large audience. Possible monetary compensation, commercialized distribution, advertising usage

This is more or less along the lines of a “pro” camera:


[Example of a "pro" Cybershot camera]


Personal = Distribution to a limited audience many via Instagram, Facebook, Twitter. Usually personal use and sharing. No monetary compensation involved, and no commercialization.

My camera when I got it in 2010:

[Small "point & shoot" Cybershot; mainly personal use]


I get that, and I think we all do. It makes PERFECT sense.

I also feel as though there should have been some “signage” (whether or not people pay attention) to state: only personal cameras and smart-phones allowed – 

NO PROFESSIONAL PHOTOGRAPHY WITHOUT PERMISSION OF MALL.

That would have worked. Warning is posted and if people don’t read – their fault. It might have avoided a few problems for the friend that day.

Again, because of the camera, they might have thought the person was doing something sinister.

We live in “suspicious” times. We don’t really know each other, so we don’t know what anyone is capable of or even thinking. Perhaps they thought she was there to photograph kids for an advert.

Or, she could have been working for an investigator. She might have been something worse … again; we don’t really know each other, so we don’t know what anyone is capable of or even thinking of.

That is why it is up to us to know the equipment and where it is and isn’t allowed.


What Have My Photo Taking Experiences In Public Been Like?

For the most part – terrific! No real problems. I’ve been able to take pictures at every event … almost. And, there will be a blog about the one time I wasn’t able to, but it was a “special event”, so it was understandable.

Since I began using a digital camera in December 2003, I haven’t had any real problems from people – private people or celebrities.

The only major incident was with a private person on April 29, 2012, my birthday. That almost turned a blessed day/event into something ugly. And, it was something I was reminded of when my friend posted her issue about the camera and the mall almost two years later.

I was spending the day at Scandia in Victorville for my birthday. Since I hadn’t been to a Scandia in a LONG time (try about 1996), I was taking pictures of the little houses, buildings, and the “bumper boats” – even the little Indy racers as well as the surrounding area. Tell me who didn’t do this back in the day? 

[Little buildings at Scandia – Victorville, CA]

I have some OLD 4” x 6” photos from the one that had been here in Las Vegas adjacent to the I-15. That was back in the days of 35mm film! Those were some good times …

Coming back to the present …

As I said … I was there for my birthday. I was actively playing mini-golf, wearing my “all-day/all-access” wrist band, when this man aggressively approached me. He demanded to know why I was taking pictures of HIS kids.

Again, this is with my “point & shoot” camera, I’m with my mom … we’re playing golf. It wasn’t as if I had been lurking or following him, it wasn’t like I wasn’t actively doing my own thing between “turns”.  I wasn’t “lingering” or “loitering”.

Naturally … I was a bit stunned as to why he was so aggressive.

Now, I don't like people in my pictures (sometimes they’re distracting), so I make sure to shoot around people as much as possible, especially kids. I don’t like to have kids in my photos if I can get by with it. Sometimes, I can’t – like at a NASCAR track. On this occasion, I could. I made a special effort to go around them.

The man demanded I give him my camera! No way, buddy! Not getting it. You want it … call a cop (at least that’s what I was thinking). My mom stopped playing to watch what was going on. I signaled for her to stay back as right then it didn’t concern her, it was my problem, and the fewer people “involved” – the better.

The man was agitated and I didn’t want things to escalate. It was my birthday, we’d just gotten there, having driven close to 190 miles to get there – I didn’t want my day to end before it began. I remained calm and in control …

He again demanded the camera and, again, accused me of taking pictures of HIS kids.

Had it not been so serious, I would have laughed. I didn’t know which of the eight kids gathered there were “his” kids, and I had also taken other pictures of the trip down there, so it wasn’t like I hadn’t been taking any pictures all day.  And, I had no “kids” in any of my pictures.

I politely informed him that I wasn't taking pictures of his kids. He said “you most certainly were; I saw you”.

What we see, and what we think we see are two different things. It might look like it, but it isn’t. I might point the camera, but I don’t “shoot” until it is “clear”.  I look, wait, snap. I’m not exactly a pro, but I’m not an amateur either. At that point, I had been taking pictures for over nine (9) years. In that time … I’ve perfected a few things.

Anyone with access to my photos can see this is how I shoot my pictures. Of course there will be the rare times of tourist attractions or photo bombs and I share a picture that people are present in, but it doesn’t “detract” from the subject. I’m sure we’ve ALL done that. Sometimes, it cannot be avoided.

Maintaining a firm grip of my camera, I showed him the previews to show that his kids WERE NOT in my pictures. He asked me about the “foot” picture I had taken. It showed a pink and a purple golf ball, along with a foot in flip-flops. I tried not to laugh as that foot belonged to my mom! It was HER foot! While not “huge”, certainly it was too big to be that of a child’s foot.

Still not convinced I wasn’t up to a sinister act, I showed him my wrist band, our receipt for our purchase, said it was my birthday, and that I was taking PERSONAL pictures of my experiences. He wanted me to delete all pictures off the camera card to be sure. I deleted only a few “empty” ones of the bumper boats, but I said no more. After a few seconds, he backed down but said “watch it”. I was rattled, but moved on. Not sure if he left or what. I didn’t see him again. I did get a few pictures of the bumper boats anyway – again, no kids.


[Celebrating my birthday at Scandia – Victorville, CA. As you can see that "foot" is not exactly a child's foot. That was my mother. The pink ball was hers that day.]


And, I kept on taking pictures without any further incidents from anyone. Even others in the area made comments about him. Apparently there was something going on, but as I’ve come to learn ... “not my circus, not my monkey”. 

As long as he stayed away from us … it was all good. And, since it didn’t end in violence or the police arriving – it was definitely “good”.

I know I shouldn’t have had to delete the pictures, after all … we’re in public, it is a tourist attraction, and families go there … what was the problem?

I didn’t know, wasn’t going to ask. He was concerned, he was upset, I honored a request (to a point), and moved on. I respected his right to privacy, but I was NOT going to just give up everything.

Some would argue that it was a “PUBLIC FACILITY” much in the way Disneyland is.

Can you imagine Disneyland telling tourists “NO PICTURES”?

Honestly, I don’t think that would sit well with their visitors. And, can you imagine EVERY parent demanding someone’s camera or demanding they don’t take pictures of their kids? That’d be real hard to enforce. I get the reasoning behind it though.

That is why I understand the restriction on “professional” cameras. Even some shady paparazzi have been known to buy a ticket/pass for a place to get some pictures to sell.

That might be why there are some “no camera” restrictions. Which, to that point, I hadn’t encountered.


What Do You Mean … “no cameras”?

My first “no camera” experience was later on in 2012 during a visit to Planet Hollywood Hotel/Casino (Las Vegas) for NASCAR’s “After the Lap”. I had to pick up my tickets BEFORE the event as they didn’t mail them out … good thing I live there though.

As I was leaving, a sign caught my eye: NO CAMERAS.

What?!

Since the event started here in Las Vegas in 2009, I’ve ALWAYS gotten to take pictures, most everyone who goes to a concert, special event, race, etc. takes them … pictures are ESSENTIAL to capturing, sharing, and re-kindling memories.

Being curious (and little crushed), I asked security about my phone and my Sony Cybershot, and was told they were allowed in the venue, but not a “pro” camera. Phone cameras and “point & shoot” cameras are deemed “personal”, and were allowed.


Whew! What a relief!

I was satisfied, came home, got ready and headed back there. No problems with security, and I got some GREAT pictures with my little pink “point & shoot”.



[NASCAR "After the Lap" 2012 – Planet Hollywood Hotel/Casino Las Vegas, NV]


The event was switched to the Palms for 2013, but again … no problem using my small Cybershot and smart phone camera.

And, this was also the concern of another friend who’d gone to a concert. Her pro camera wasn’t allowed, but her smaller “point & shoot” was allowed.


So … what’s the BIG Deal Anyway?

With everyone getting so “sue happy” these days, there have been a few lawsuits about “fair use” in advertising with photos. Some started out as personal pictures, which a company asked to use ... then **poof** it got exploited after that.

And, obviously in the “Scandia” case … the father might have thought I was a private investigator or something else, despite the fact I was there celebrating my own special day with some presents in the car, and my mom was there as well. Who knows? But, his concerns are everyone’s concerns – privacy, safety, security.

That’s why it’s IMPORTANT to know your camera.

For years, I’ve wanted a DSLR camera, especially for NASCAR races. So, why haven’t I gotten one?

            1.) COST – Really, I can’t bear to part with the $300 (and up) it might cost.

            2.) RESTRICTED USE – The whole point of getting a “great” camera is to get some “GREAT” images. If I face a lot of restrictions on where to use it, I don’t think it is the camera for me. After all … I’ve used my Cybershot since February 2010, and it’s done great (despite drops, bangs, and falls). This is the LONGEST I’ve ever owned a camera

            3.) SPACE – It doesn’t fit easily in a purse or pocket, or even in my car’s pocket. It is bulky and awkward. I couldn’t see me taking it on a plane (as I did with my pink “Cybershot” in June)

I do know that I will have to get a new camera … the Sony’s USB/Video cable has been through the ringer despite careful usage:

[Poor USB cable ... four years old and still going, despite this]


But, I don’t think I’ll upgrade to a DSLR unless I get into the photography business. I’ve gotten several GORGEOUS shots with my current camera (samples from a flight and trip to New Jersey in June 2014):

[Little flight and trip I took June 2014 – Las Vegas, NV and Newark, NJ]


So … What Have We Learned?

Learn about the equipment! Know the designations of it.

It might not say “professional”, but chances are … the more sophisticated it is, the more professional it COULD be. And, anyone with those cameras can run into a LOT of problems.

I also urge people to carry a smart-phone with a camera and a “point & shoot” just in case “pro” cameras aren’t allowed in the venue. Call and investigate prior, and if you can ... stop by the venue to check out their policies. This might save some headaches.

If you go sight-seeing, take the pro camera, but a trip to the mall or somewhere else? Go for the smaller “point & shoot”. Chances are, you might not have any problems. Always check signage to be sure though.

Realize that not everyone wants their picture taken, and respect that. No matter what the reason is.

Oh, and that event I went to? I only got one picture from the night. It was worth it. But, I did get pictures the day before and day after, and I have hinted at what it was in regards to.

I’ll blog about that some other time …

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

How a Photo & Memory Led to a Twitter Hiatus


Not too many people know this unless you follow me on Twitter or we’re friends on Facebook (maybe not even then)… but …

I went on a trip to New Jersey at the end of June. Some, by now are probably so very tired of hearing about it. Some were tired of hearing about it BEFORE I left.

Knowing that, why am I bringing it up, and blogging about it? 

Like normal – the result of an incident or issue on Twitter. This time, it was the result of the “COVER” picture on my Twitter profile page, which has been there since around the time of the trip (June 26th to June 29th).


[A "replica" license plate to a "special" car]

I’m not sure when exactly I chose it, though I do believe it was about the time it was taken (6/26), so it was up on Twitter for approximately 40 days when someone, who wasn’t even a follower, posted this tweet to me:


[Tweet I got; out of the blue; from a "concerned" person]

Before I tell you how much that shocked me, if you don’t know about the history of the license plate, I need to take a few moments to explain it, and how special it is to me. Sorry for the long story ...

I was lucky enough to have been born in April 1976, so by the second season of “Starsky & Hutch”, I was about 5/6 months old. My mom had me in something like this (it didn’t even have a patterned seat; it was VERY basic):

[Courtesy of Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/pin/352758583284550627/ again, this was the 70's so it is SEVERELY out of date ... the walker that is]

So, during the show (which she’d began watching just after she got pregnant with me), I’d roll up … kiss my guy and stand in front of the T.V. Believe it or not, I knew which one of the two was mine (no, I am not telling who it was), and when he’d drive off or be “off-camera”, I’d roll off. Of course, I knew his car and his voice and I’d come back. Or, my mom would call to me that he was back and I’d come back, smiling.

After a few episodes of this, my mom decided it was a great way to keep me busy so she could tidy up or crochet. She never left me alone. I was always within her eyesight (and because I’d roll off, I was always near her), but she gave up trying to watch the show. It became my show instead.

Some people will scream about the violence. Me? I was a baby! I couldn’t care less. I was only watching for two reasons: my guy and his car (which looked really good during those chases). End of story.

I didn’t have nightmares, I didn’t suffer intellectually (well, according to my 3.5-3.8 college GPA I didn’t), and I know fantasy from reality. I’m also a writer. I’ve held down jobs, don’t smoke, drink maybe a glass of wine a month (maybe less), and I haven’t had any run-ins with law enforcement. I don’t think I suffered too much as a result.

When I could walk? I’d run over to the T.V.

This routine of me and my adoration of “Starsky & Hutch” continued until the series went off in May 1979, after I turned three (3).

But, for many years, it remained on syndication. However, I was a bit too old to run over to the screen and “kiss” someone. Not only that, my grandma would have frowned up that despite it not being her T.V. She wouldn’t have understood that relationship.

Anyway …

I never lost sight of the show, or how special it was to me. I’d write my own episodes (fan-fiction) by creating crimes for the guys to solve, and yet have a romance – or two. I’d have my own “written” seasons planned out (funny how I never got back to doing those).

I owned the COLUMBIA HOUSE RE-TV VHS tapes (still have them, just no VCR), and I got the DVDs just last year (September/October 2013). I got a die-cast Torino and the books for Christmas (2013). All of that set in motion what happened in June, which set in motion my choice of the picture as my Twitter cover picture. 

I had always hoped to meet David Soul (Kenneth “Hutch” Hutchinson) and Paul Michael Glaser (David Starsky). I also wanted a bright red, Ford Gran Torino, with a bright white “vector” stripe (still do). Even seeing one in person was a dream. I honestly never thought I’d ever see, let alone touch one. If someone had told me that last year (2013) I would … I would have wondered about their sanity or perception of reality.

It was because of that renewed interest that I turned to the internet. I was looking to see what they were up to (as I didn’t have T.V. service) and found out about a “fan gathering”. I had read about SurCon (tribute event to David & Paul) which was started as a result of a story surrounding David’s copy of the “Survival” script (episode he directed). I missed SurCon 2013 in California (rats). But, when I found out there would be one in New Jersey for 2014, I couldn’t wait to go. It posed a few problems though:

How the hell was I going to get there?
What the hell am I thinking in going there?

Part of the draw was just doing it! So … I did. The whole story behind it will be another blog (which I need to get drafted and working on). But, back to the topic here (which is best at this point) …

I not only got to meet these two WONDERFUL actors/directors. But, I got to see the ORIGINAL Gran Torino from seasons 2, 3, and 4! I saw it in the hotel and on the streets when they gave some lucky fans (auction winners) some rides in it. Seeing them in it again, and hearing it roar down the road? There was nothing that could compare to it. And, as a NASCAR fan … it even beat out going to my first race.

Being a photographer … seeing is believing, as is touching. When you’re only used to seeing it on the T.V. in the little tube, it becomes a surreal experience. You want to not only film it (which I did film parts of the journey, the guys and the car), but photograph it. And, sometimes? You want to touch it.

So … I did!

Being as proud of myself for quelling my plane phobia (there is an inside joke to this), traveling for the first time alone, and for getting the courage to meet these two … yeah, I wanted to brag a bit.

As part of those “bragging” rights, I snapped a picture of the ICONIC license plate of the “striped tomato” (which I touched because I still couldn’t believe I was seeing it).  I also had to do it to prove to a few friends (and myself) I had really done this. I also took quite a few photos that weekend as there were other sights and memories that needed to be preserved.

Getting back to the license plate photo …

1.) It is a REPLICA of a real plate (which I am assuming is on a Torino somewhere)
2.) This REPLICA lists SEP 1976 (beginning of second season) as the expiration date
3.) The “picture” was taken on a carpeted surface (showing inside a building)
4.) This picture was used in a collage for 6/26, which shows it inside a hotel:

[Awesome collage I put together for my Project: 365 daily picture. This is the Gran Torino from the series "Starsky & Hutch" sitting near the ballrooms of the Newark Liberty International Airport Marriott June 26, 2014]

When I got the tweet I did, I was a bit … perplexed. For the reasons stated above.  

In addition, the mention of “police” and “military” got me to thinking … “surely, this person can’t believe this is the license plate to a REAL police car. Where would they get that idea”.

I looked at my Twitter avatar/picture, which used to be my Facebook cover page. There I am, sitting in a replica Torino with an OLD police light (which I am certain they don’t use any more).

[Me sitting in a 1974 Ford Gran Torino. Belonged to a fan who had driven the car to New Jersey from Connecticut. Taken at Liberty State Park, New Jersey  June 27, 2014]

We’ve got a few problems with this person thinking that license is to a real police car:

1.) License plate is EXPIRED (hate to re-state this obvious fact)
2.) Pretty sure law enforcement doesn’t use those lights anymore (red bubble)
3.) Pretty damn sure law enforcement wouldn’t let a detective have that high profile of a car (bright red with a HUGE white stripe); it was on television and a crappy re-make movie (my blog, my opinion, just making a statement that was even supported by the original S & H people).

After exchanging tweets, it was obvious – the person had never seen the awful, wretched movie let alone the series (which is what this was from). And, the person is 4-5 years older than I am. Maybe their parents wouldn’t have let them seen it, but there are re-runs. In addition, let’s remember … the registration is technically EXPIRED, so that brings it to “non-issue” status. Hate to again repeat the obvious, but it is quite clear. Why the person had to mention it is beyond me. I’m still (even now) trying to reconcile that.

But, that incident was the latest in some “social media” drama. I got burnt out. I said I was thinking about leaving Twitter, and I’ve only interacted partially since that tweet exchange. I haven’t posted any more pictures or updated people on how I’ve been doing or what is going on. As I told one person, I got tired of explaining. While she brought up a good point of not doing it, still … the stuff wears you down. You hope to engage people to enlighten you (or them). You certainly hope the people who engage you do the same for you.

Anyway ...

While this story could be humorous … it also shows how social media gives us too much instant gratification and the ability to say things before thinking them through. An innocent remark/concern could come off wrong to the receiver. Even if you delete it, someone can do what I did … take a screen capture of it. Once it’s out there – it is out there. There is no going back.

Going back to the tweet …

“for safety reasons you shouldn’t show a license number on here”

I spent 20 minutes going over my account wondering what they were referring to. As you can see, I asked for clarification as I was stumped. What license info did I post? I wasted those 20 minutes, which is about the time it takes me to drive to/from my mom’s work place – for perspective on how much that 20 minutes is in our household. True, I was online chatting with some long-distance friends, working on a trip related photo project, organizing photos, and writing … still, that 20 minutes to search for what was going on … was a waste of time.

Why did I search? I didn’t want to unknowingly put someone’s information out there. Perhaps it was an auto-tweet for something charitable, perhaps I was hacked. I wanted to find the tweet and/or picture and delete it immediately.

That would be the right thing to do.  

Then the person said “just trying to help”. Again, I spent some time pondering this. Help? Why do I need help? What help do I need? I get well-meaning folks, but given the facts surrounding the plate (namely the “expired” part of it) … it seemed a bit “petty”.  

After all, a lot of people put their “license” info on Twitter. I’ve done it with my Cobalt, and I’ve seen friends do it with their own vehicles. When you have personalized/vanity plates, hard to hide them. And, when you drive out in public, it is hard to hide them as well. Also, some “show” cars are registered at car shows.

Because of what I’ve previously been through with certain things, and not knowing this person (who incidentally was not a follower) … it could have turned ugly.

Some people might argue the person was curious. After all, once they were told and apologized, they quickly focused on pushing their “webcast” and recruit technique on me. 
[Hate to break it to ya ... replica of a real plate, and FYI ... it expired back in September 1976 ... the "tag" that is]

["Sorry I didn't understand ... hey, check out my webcast. I'm also looking for bloggers to help." ... right, after I recover those 20 minutes I lost.]

Great marketing technique (**rolling my eyes**). I think if I were curious about something, I would have actually “perused” photos/videos (for those who don’t know Twitter … it does give you a link to see the media the person has posted), and then open a dialogue by asking …

“Why do you have a license plate as your cover photo?” 

That might have solved it in two steps. They’d have gotten positive attention and eased some curiosity. They might have learned something as well. With what they originally said (trying to be helpful or not), it came off the wrong way. Maybe in perusing my photos they would have seen the collage and figured out it was a “show”/“display” car, so there wouldn’t be an issue with the plate.

I’m not silly enough to think that everyone would know the plate (I’m a sucker for details about things I am VERY interested in).

After all, it isn’t like “Knight Rider” and KNIGHT or KARR (and I suspect some people may not know those either). But, I certainly hope anyone would see it is expired and perhaps no longer valid, thus it is a “non issue” (sorry again for mentioning the obvious, still trying to reconcile what triggered the tweet) … so, why would I have it as a cover photo and what is the significance? Why not ask?

My mom and some of my friends (either on Twitter or Facebook) ask “why do people feel the need to say something” or “why are they saying something about [insert issue]”.

I’ve long ago stopped asking “why” people say the things they do or ask why they have the problems they do in relation to those things. Given the increase of it, I am of the opinion that social media and etiquette surrounding it needs to be taught and not just in schools – to adults as well. There are better ways of interacting or started a conversation. Social media has seemingly ended the long standing tradition of “etiquette”, “good manners”, and “decency”.

After all, many of us have enough drama in real life, we don’t need it online. Some of us have limited time due to work, school, family, religious, and other social obligations. As a result, when things like this happen, we tend to withdraw away from social media since others cannot be responsible. I’ve said it a few times on Twitter, yet, well meaning friends always seem to convince me to come back. I’ve completely left Google +(G+) and I left MySpace YEARS ago.

One of my friends is taking a Facebook hiatus, and I am HIGHLY considering taking a very long Twitter hiatus.

I would turn my tweets private, but I don’t want the headache of worrying about missing out on “RT this to win” or “reply back with answer to win”. I’ve gotten some great stuff doing that. I don’t plan to miss out on that at all.

I’ve heard that if people aren’t following you they can’t see your tweets, and other things. With the rules changing every day (or so it seems), I’d rather opt for a hiatus – reply or tweet only when necessary or interesting.

As far as sharing my pictures there …

I gave up sharing a majority of my pictures, though post-trip, I had wanted to share more of them. But, I am stumped. Since my mom is there, I’m sure she’d like a back-up in case Facebook fails (or goes down like it recently did). So, it isn’t right to her to miss out. There are also people who are taking a Facebook hiatus or opted to close their accounts in favor of Twitter. They would miss out as well.

So, how do I balance it?

It isn’t easy. Even close to five years later (on Twitter that is), I am still learning. I basically watch my favorite celebs to see what they do (learn by example; they’re the most criticized ones). I watch how the NASCAR drivers handle private and family tweets. Many are wide open while some are only here or there. And, after what I’ve been through? I don’t wonder and can’t blame them.

Will I go back to Twitter? I’m still evaluating that. It’s not at the top of my priorities though.

I like the positive interaction, sharing photos, and even the rare times I win something. But, I don’t like the unnecessary drama – such as the issue of my profile photo or my cover photo. Unless it is something entirely inappropriate: nudity, abuse, supporting violence, etc … I don’t see why people can’t “let it go”. Find another way of starting a conversation if that is the intent. If not … let it go.

I’ve been replying to people, just haven’t posted much personally. Still undecided as to how I want to proceed. And, with the last few days being so “sad” in the news, I’m thinking I want to just limit the interaction there.


Oh, and if you figured out how the crush and license plate are connected … I do have the right to remain silent. Sounds good, doesn’t it?